You Are The Ambiance

Gatekeeping My Garden became a powerful tool that helped me to remember the woman I already was.

The silence was strategy, intention, and wisdom. Growth isn’t always about planting something new.

Sometimes it’s about realizing the garden has been sacred all along.

And the gate was never about keeping others out.

It was about my own personal homecoming. It was about not skipping grief but sitting with it…facing myself (good, bad, indifferent) and watering the soil that life tried to harden and corrupt.

It was about surviving it without losing myself.

It was to understand that even when the soil feels altered and when Blooming Intentionally looks different than it once did, the true essence of who you are remains. You are still HER.

You don’t lose who you are in grief.

You get quieter.
You get slower.
You get more intentional.

Intentionality is the clearest sign of growth.

And in the quiet work of Blooming Intentionally and giving my soil a bit of extra care, I realized, it was me all along…

I am HER. I am The Ambiance and so are YOU!

You are not behind.
You are not unfinished.
You are not waiting to become her.

You are already HER…You are THE AMBIANCE!